Hi everyone!! Long time, no blogging! Our family has grown and changed a lot over the past 3 years. We decided to start our blog up again to keep family and friends updated.
On November 28th, 2013, at 4:57am, we welcomed our 3rd child, Luke Walter Julien, into this world. He was born 2 weeks early, weighing in at a whopping 4 lbs. 13 oz. He was a happy, healthy little squirt, who loved the attention of his big brother and big sister.
Luke, aka, Lukey Pookey, Wally Bally Head, Big Guy (just to name a few of his nicknames), is growing rapidly and is now 2 months old, weighing in at 7 lbs. 10 oz.
At his 2 month check-up, our doctor was quite concerned with his lethargic mannerism and lack of response to any of her prodding (he had just gone down for a nap, and he wasn't waking up for anything). She called Children's Hospital, and had us check into the ER for blood tests.
On my drive down there, I had a million emotions running through me. I couldn't reach Stefan at work, my mom answered her phone and met me down at the ER. Luke and I arrived at the ER at noon, and throughout the afternoon, he was checked out by 11 doctors and poked 9 times trying to get a good blood sample. By 8pm, they didn't have a diagnosis, so they admitted him saying they thought he had Failure to Thrive. Geez!! I called Stefan, he packed stuff up and drove over, my mom came over to stay with kiddos, and we were at the ICC unit by 9pm.
We ended up staying at the hospital a total of 3 days and 2 nights. It was a blur! Here is who Luke saw and had done to him:
- Geneticist
- Audiologist - ABR test
- ENT Team
- CT scan
- 5 different on-call Pediatric doctors
- Phlebotomy - another 7 pokes (never ended up getting enough blood to complete the genetic tests)
Based on the ABR test, it appears God has blessed us with a little boy who
has some significant hearing loss. It appears that there are no
underlying issues, such as disease or metabolic issues, which is an
answer to prayer! And that all his lag in development
milestones can be attributed to loss of hearing. Stefan and I were in a state of shock and grief when we finally arrived back home with Luke late Friday night. That weekend we felt the outpouring of love from our family, friends, and church family. Emails flooded our accounts, phone calls, meals, we felt so incredibly loved.
During our time of grief, God showed up (as always) and wrapped his loving arms around us. Giving us comfort, peace, and reminding us of the wonderful blessing our little Luke is, and will be in the future.
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and
petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the
peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts
and your minds in Christ Jesus." - Colossians 1:11
We can already see how his life and story, is touching the lives of many around us. We know that God has a plan and a special purpose for our little Luke. This gives us so much hope and comfort.
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." - Romans 8:28
This past week, Luke had 2 more appointments. He met with the ophthalmologist. We were concerned that since his hearing was impaired so might his vision. Prayers were answered, and the doctor said that his eyes looked healthy! Praise God! He does have some mild ptosis (droopy eyelid, just like his brother James did as a baby). We are going to monitor this, and check back in 3 months.
His other appointment was with the ENT doctor down at Children's. He said his CT scan looked great, and his general shape and health of the ear is wonderful. Luke does have a significant amount of fluid in his inner ear. They were originally thinking of putting tubes in his ears, and that this might increase his level of hearing. The ENT said that the fluid looks clear, and that we should just wait to see if it drains on its own. He didn't think eliminating fluid would increase his hearing enough to make hearing aids a viable long term solution.
So... Luke is a perfect candidate for a Cochlear Implants, and he can get them as early as 8-9 months. From Wikipedia: A Cochlear Implant, is a surgically implanted electronic device that provides a sense of sound to a person who is either deaf or severely hard of hearing. The implant can enable sufficient hearing for understanding of speech. The quality of sound is different from
natural hearing, with less sound information being received and
processed by the brain. However, many patients are able to hear and
understand speech and environmental sounds. Newer devices and
processing-strategies allow recipients to hear better in noise, enjoy
music, and even use their implant processors while swimming.
In the meantime, Luke was fitted for ear molds, and receives his hearing aids on Thursday. Luke can hear 90 decibels and above, which puts him at severe hearing loss (see chart below). The audiologist is hoping that with hearing aids, and us talking VERY loudly, he can hear a bit of sound. He will not be able to decifer speech, but at least he'll be able to see our lips move or a toy, and hear a soft sound.
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This week, a Speech Pathologist is coming out to do an initial assessment of Luke and talk about resources available. He will begin Speech and Language soon, and we are so lucky that this is federally funded and SP actually do home visits until children are school aged.
The road ahead still seems unclear and we know that we, as parents, and Luke have a TON of work ahead of us. Stefan and I are nervous, but also excited to start this journey with Luke and our family. All of us have started learning ASL, Addie being the one to pick it up the quickest (she already has around 70 signs in her repertoire). Sign language will be our main form of communication until he is around 2 1/2 years. Then at this point, with his Cochlear Implants, he will be able to start forming words to match his signs.
Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers! We feel so blessed by your love, and most importantly, the love that our Father gives us. He promises to always walk along side us. He knows what's ahead before we even get there. It is the trust and faith in Him, that allows us to understand this change in OUR plans, is exactly what he has already planned for us and it is wonderful beyond what we could imagine.
Blessings to you all and I promise to email and update our blog as much as I can! Love to you all!
Love, the MN Juliens
